No, forms and reports are a seperate software
1 Is forms and reports included in either or both of these softwares if it is where and how do I access them and get forms builder screen. if not where do I download them.
You can download from here http://www.oracle.com/technetwork/developer-tools/forms/downloads/index.html
2 My book is talking specifically about oracle forms builder is that a seperate software if so can someone give me a download link if not how do I access them from oracle 10g or 11g.
That is because you are using Windows 7 and Developer suite 10g 10.1.2.0.2 is not certified with windows 7, however Forms 10.1.2.3 is certified, so to correct that you must install 10.1.2.0.2 version with Forms 10.1.2.3's installer. The 10.1.2.3 installer is a patch for Forms installation, this is a trick to install 10.1.2.0.2 version since with 10.1.2.3 installer you will get the same message that complains about the windows version but it will let you continue with the installation.
It gave me an error and said that operating system must be 5.0, 5.1, 5.2 and that the actual was 6.1