Does anyone gets another login (XDB) after login into https://localhost:5500/em?
Using to login: user "sys" password "<my password>" container "XE" checked "as sysdba"
And can you connect from other host after configured?
(you must issue a) "exec dbms_xdb.setlistenerlocalaccess(false)" to set listener open to other hosts, b) exec dbms_xdb.sethttpport(8080)" to enable 8080 port