Best Practice question regarding node manager start script use.

I'm wondering what is the best idea, to not enable the start script in nodemanager properties, or to use it?

We have some systems using this, so over time admins have put in memory args in the remote start options, so then your process has two different "Xms/Xmx" options listed in the PID listing, which is a little sloppy looking.

Of course at times we would need to use remote start options for isolation, but when you have multiple manager servers in a domain it gets to be a pain for admins who are not WL experts who just use the gui (example, backup on_call who are admins for other apps).