Patch 9239090 12.1.3 upgrade crashed and cannot restart - 3-5754971261

12.1.3 upgrade crashed due to memory errors with server.  when restarting - I get these errors:

At line number 106 in the main restart file, the job with:
  While executing 12.1.3 upgrade - received errors -
AutoPatch error:
The following ORACLE error:

ORA-03113: end-of-file on communication channel


occurred while executing the SQL statement:

Insert into AD_DEFERRED_JOBS [3]

AutoPatch error:
Failed saving timing information to AD_DEFERRED_JOBS


Telling workers to quit...

AutoPatch error:
The following ORACLE error:

ORA-03114: not connected to ORACLE


occurred while executing the SQL statement:

SET control_code = 'Q'
WHERE worker_id > 0
AND control_code <> 'A'

Telling workers to quit...