After contact is end dated a message pop up that the contact may have been end dated. Is there a wa

We need to end the spouse of employee who have divorced or other dependent who are no longer eligible for reasons other than age, so that they won't show up on the Dependents and Beneficiaries Page or the Cover Dependents Page in Self Service.  The employees don't want to see a deceased child or divorced spouse still listed.

However, when we end the contact, the message pops up on the designee form that a contact may have been end dated and we don't want to see this message every time.  Is there a way to disable this message.