How do I configure my first disposition rule?

I've read as much as I could and spent approximately a week muddling about with the dispositions trying to get them to work the way I want them to, but there just seems to be something I am not understanding.

What I want to do is create a disposition so that after one day has passed once a record has been checked in, it will email me an email asking me to approve for the deletion of the record.  After that, wait another day and then complete the deletion of the native file keeping the metadata for the record.

To accomplish this, I have taken the following steps.