Oracle execution plan in order

As I know everyone is aware, there are quite a few ways to gather an execution plan from a SQL that has executed. I prefer the display_cursor procedure of DBMS_XPLAN or the SQL active monitoring reports as they show the actual execution plan generated for a SQL as opposed to an EXPLAIN PLAN which can be wrong, well not the plan ultimately used by a SQL statement. In any event, I can't seem to find any tool which generates the plans in order in which the row sources/operations are executed. All of these methods just seem to return the execution