Setting Customer Address and Shipping Address

I am trying to set the customer address on the customer record and have it flow to the sales order as the shipping address this is via PHP and webservices.  The address will not stay and here is the code.

Any help would be appreciated as we are stuck .


/** create new customer and get internal id */
            //add new address
            $address = new CustomerAddressBook();
            $address->defaultShipping = true;
            $address->defaultBilling = true;
            $address->attention = mb_convert_encoding($row_order['ship_to_name'], 'UTF-8');
            $address->addr1     = $row_order['ship_to_street1'].' '.$row_order['ship_to_street2'];