Custom HTML Menu Override

I have managed after many nightmares to get a template to display right in netsuite. But now I have a problem. That problem is with tags. instead of having tabs display automatically on my site, i have an html menu e.g. <a href="#">Home Page</a> like that as each menu item. But now how do i link these to the right tabs?

For example I have a members login that i want to link to the CustomerCenter etc. but how do i do this? i managed to get the home page right after much research e.g. <li><a class="top-level"  a href="<%=getCurrentAttribute('site','homepageurl')%>">Home<br>Page</a> this is the code for my home page. But now how do i do all the other pages? Like I have created also a FAQ tab but have no clue how to link to it.